Thankful I found this post Jan. SW has opened up a whole new world for me. The women here are sooooo very honest and open about life....it is truely a wonderful thing to be truthful and honest about this life...it is once, it is precious and it is ours. If you can not write about this trauma....plant the most awesome plant...tree you can find and hopefully nurture it into something that you will see grow and display flowers. This advice sounded so "not adequate enough' for me but I did it...A Frangipani ...it flowered Beutifully and now a Tree that has green leaves but every so often has a red love heart shaped leaf....it is truely such a wonderful way of showing Forgiveness for self and others. It brings PEACE. So true we have to be good to ourselves....for the other person does not take repsonsibility for their actions....it is us that brings that hurt with us. It is a healing process. God Bless all you wonderful Writers on SW. I have found you all at the right time ...as they say...their is a Time for Everything....a Time to Forgive. Just Do It, Do it for you...and me and every other woman who has been hurt. <3
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I think you have to learn to forgive. If not you'll likely to walk around carrying a grudge, let go of resentment, it beats you down. Releasing it, removes the anger, forgiveness is good for the soul.
Barbara J. Fields