Aside from the usual distractions - raising kids, work writing, running a farm - I've found that if/when there's a guy "of interest" in my life, it affects my writing. I'm curious if others have the same issue. If so, what do you do about it? I spend my entire day writing for a living, which is much different than writing for my book. When I'm not writing for pay, I'm being Mom, working on the h…