Over the years I have gained a few friends of different races, ages and cultures. I must say I have learned quite a bit from them. I did not set out to get a Caucasian friend or a Hispanic friend or even an older friend. However,  my goal was  to have quality people in my life. I wanted  to expand my circle and  I have been pleasantly surprised as my friendships  have grown.

As always, my goal is to learn and when I learn I can share it with others. I have…

Do you look at the lives of others and wonder why they have “that” life? Do you compare your life to friends and family members? Do you ask “why can’t my children act that way?” or Do you ask “How did she get him?”

If so, you may have GREEN eyes. Green eyes as in green with envy.

Envy, for most is considered a bad thing, but I see that greenish tint in your eyes as an opportunity for growth. There are some people who want to be envied. They…

All children are born loving their mother. Somewhere between birth and high school every mother will fall off that pedestal. It is inevitable. We will make mistakes. We will have “uh-oh” moments and “oopsies” along the way.

So when did I fall from grace?

Girls want to know the details. “What was your first date like with daddy?” “When did you have your first boyfriend?” ”Did you graduate from college?” ”When was your first kiss?”…

We have seen and known children have been bullied for years. But what about adults? Mean girls grow up and become mean women. Bullying boys become bullying men.

 When mean girls grow up they are the women who create hostile work environments. These same women are the women that dare you to be yourself at home, at work, or at play. The walk around  looking “mad” for no reason. They lie and create chaos. These women doubt everyone’s actions and…