Gretchen Rubin
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Hi Gretchen, I featured your book as part of a blog post I just wrote about the quest for happiness. By the way, your badge is very cool--I had to throw that onto the page because it looked so playful! Best…
Jan 25, 2010
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Hi Gretchen, Have been really enjoying your blog. I teach at Vroman's in Pasadena, so glad to see you'll be reading from The Happiness Project there! Best, Mona Gable Huffington Post
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B. Lynn Goodwin commented on the blog post 'Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.'
Congratulations! Your excitement leaps off the page. Lynn www.writeradvice.com Author of You Want Me to Do WHAT? Journaling for Caregivers
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Jessica Keenan Smith commented on the blog post 'Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.'
Let the Philly/South Jersey contingent know if you plan to work your way down the east coast from Boston. And I'll encourage folks back "home" in Boston to go see you in one of my favorite bookstores. Best of luck!, Jessica Keenan…
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Whew!! Congrats Gretchen!! I live out here in California but I'll watch for you if you drop by the Bay area.. :) I just hope my new book launch goes as smoothly as yours seemed to do! Please visit my "countdown" Blog Inspiration for…
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Gretchen Rubin commented on the blog post 'Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.'
Wonderful! I look forward to meeting you in Boston in a few weeks!
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Happy Launch Day! I have put January 13th in my calender, so I can come hear you at Brookline Booksmith in Boston.
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Gretchen Rubin commented on the blog post 'Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.'
Thanks so much! I really appreciate the support of the She Writes team!
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CONGRATULATIONS, GRETCHEN! All of us here behind the scenes at She Writes are sooo excited for you!!!! GO GO GO!!!
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Gretchen Rubin commented on the blog post 'Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.'
Wonderful! Good luck with your book and blog! I so appreciate your good wishes.
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Debby Carroll commented on the blog post 'Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.'
I've been enjoying following your "happy" escapades on the Huffington Post. I'm definitely signing up for the challenge. Hey, who wouldn't want to be happier? I hope 2010 is a great year for all. I'm just beginning a…
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Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.

Days remaining to publication date – 1 (!)The Happiness Project is an account of the year I spent testing the wisdom of the ages, the current scientific studies, and the lessons from popular culture about how to be happier. This is my fourth book (or my fifth book, if you include a book I did in collaboration with an artist).Yippeee, I got a starred review from Publishers Weekly! Okay, I couldn’t…See More
A blog post by Gretchen Rubin was featured Dec 28, 2009

Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.

Days remaining to publication date – 1 (!)The Happiness Project is an account of the year I spent testing the wisdom of the ages, the current scientific studies, and the lessons from popular culture about how to be happier. This is my fourth book (or my fifth book, if you include a book I did in collaboration with an artist).Yippeee, I got a starred review from Publishers Weekly! Okay, I couldn’t…See More
Blog post by Gretchen Rubin Dec 28, 2009

Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.

Days remaining to publication date – 8.The Happiness Project is an account of the year I spent testing the wisdom of the ages, the current scientific studies, and the lessons from popular culture about how to be happier. This is my fourth book (or my fifth book, if you include a book I did in collaboration with an artist).My pub date grows ever closer. I’ve crossed a lot of things off my to-do…See More
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Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.

Days remaining to publication date – 15.The Happiness Project is an account of the year I spent testing the wisdom of the ages, the current scientific studies, and the lessons from popular culture about how to be happier. This is my fourth book (or my fifth book, if you include a book I did in collaboration with an artist).It’s wonderful when people pre-order a book, and this week I accomplished…See More
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Dawne E. Knobbe commented on the blog post 'Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.'
I am also on the countdown. My first book a teen novel called Runaway Storm, geared towards boys is officially out Jan 1st but I just found out Amazon is already shipping it, which sort of threw me for a loop. I have run the gamut of emotions for…
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Who I am:
www.happiness-project.com
www.gretchenrubin.com
@gretchenrubin
Books I've written, anthologies I've contributed to, and any scripts or plays I've authored:
Forty Ways to Look at Winston Churchill
Forty Ways to Look at JFK.
Power Money Fame Sex: A User's Guide
Profane Waste
Media outlets that I currently write for:
Slate
Huffington Post
RealSimple.com
Psychology Today
Intent.com
My writing is:
Nonfiction, Blog Posts
Outlets where I review books, TV, or film:
No, but I feature books.
I'm part of these writers' groups or salons:
yes
My professional associations:
ASJA

13 Tips for Actually Getting Some Writing Done.

One of the challenges of writing is...writing. Here are some tips that I’ve found most useful for myself, for actually getting words onto the page:

1. Write something every work-day, and preferably, every day; don’t wait for inspiration to strike. Staying inside a project keeps you engaged, keeps your mind working, and keeps ideas flowing. Also, perhaps surprisingly, it’s often easier to do something almost every day than to do it three times a week.

2. Remember that if you have even just fifteen minutes, you can get something done. Don’t mislead yourself, as I did for several years, with thoughts like, “If I don’t have three or four hours clear, there’s no point in starting.”

3. Don’t binge on writing. Staying up all night, not leaving your house for days, abandoning all other priorities in your life -- these habits lead to burn-out.

4. If you have trouble re-entering a project, stop working in mid-thought — even mid-sentence — so it’s easy to dive back in later.

5. Don’t get distracted by how much you are or aren’t getting done. I put myself in jail.

6. Don’t fall into the trap of thinking that creativity descends on you at random. Creative thinking comes most easily when you’re writing regularly and frequently, when you’re constantly thinking about your project.

7. Remember that lots of good ideas and great writing come during the revision stage. I've found, for myself, that I need to get a beginning, middle, and an end in place, and then the more creative and complex ideas begin to form. So I try not to be discouraged by first drafts.

8. Develop a method of keeping track of thoughts, ideas, articles, or anything that catches your attention. That keeps you from forgetting ideas that might turn out to be important, and also, combing through these materials helps stimulate your creativity. My catch-all document, where I store everything related to happiness that I don’t have another place for, is more than five hundred pages long. Some people use inspiration boards; others keep scrapbooks. Whatever works for you.

9. Pay attention to your physical comfort. Do you have a decent desk and chair? Are you cramped? Is the light too dim or too bright? Make a salute—if you feel relief when your hand is shading your eyes, your desk is too brightly lit. Check your body, too: lower your shoulders, make sure your tongue isn’t pressed against the top of your mouth, don’t sit in a contorted way. Being physically uncomfortable tires you out and makes work seem harder.

10. Try to eliminate interruptions — by other people, email, your phone, or poking around the Internet — but don’t tell yourself that you can only work with complete peace and quiet.

11. Over his writing desk, Franz Kafka had one word: “Wait.” My brilliantly creative friend Tad Low, however, keeps a different word on his desk: “Now.” Both pieces of advice are good. The opposite of a great truth is also true.

12. If you’re stuck, try going for a walk and reading a really good book. Virginia Woolf noted to herself: “The way to rock oneself back into writing is this. First gentle exercise in the air. Second the reading of good literature. It is a mistake to think that literature can be produced from the raw.”

13. At least in my experience, the most important tip for getting writing done? Have something to say! This sounds obvious, but it’s a lot easier to write when you’re trying to tell a story, explain an idea, convey an impression, give a review, or whatever. If you're having trouble writing, forget about the writing and focus on what you want to communicate. For example, I remember flailing desperately as I tried to write my college and law-school application essays. It was horrible – until in both cases I realized I had something I really wanted to say. Then the writing came easily, and those two essays are among my favorites of things I’ve ever written.

Teaser for The Happiness Project book (due out in January) – there I write about my experience when I wrote a novel in a month, inspired by Chris Baty’s No Plot? No Problem!. Yes, you can write a real novel in one month. It was a lot of fun.

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Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.

Posted on December 27, 2009 at 6:17pm 9 Comments

Days remaining to publication date – 1 (!)

The Happiness Project is an account of the year I spent testing the wisdom of the ages, the current scientific studies, and the lessons from popular culture about how to be happier. This is my fourth book (or my fifth book, if you include a book I did in collaboration with an artist).



Yippeee, I got a starred review from… Continue
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Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.

Posted on December 20, 2009 at 3:33pm 0 Comments

Days remaining to publication date – 8.

The Happiness Project is an account of the year I spent testing the wisdom of the ages, the current scientific studies, and the lessons from popular culture about how to be happier. This is my fourth book (or my fifth book, if you include a book I did in collaboration with an artist).



My pub date grows ever closer. I’ve crossed a lot… Continue
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Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.

Posted on December 13, 2009 at 7:06pm 0 Comments

Days remaining to publication date – 15.

The Happiness Project is an account of the year I spent testing the wisdom of the ages, the current scientific studies, and the lessons from popular culture about how to be happier. This is my fourth book (or my fifth book, if you include a book I did in collaboration with an artist).



It’s wonderful when people pre-order a book, and… Continue
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Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.

Posted on December 6, 2009 at 5:31pm 6 Comments

Days remaining to publication date – 22.

The Happiness Project is an account of the year I spent testing the wisdom of the ages, the current scientific studies, and the lessons from popular culture about how to be happier. This is my fourth book (or my fifth book, if you include a book I did in collaboration with an artist).



My anxiety level is starting to rise as my pub… Continue
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Countdown to Publication -- THE HAPPINESS PROJECT.

Posted on November 29, 2009 at 3:27pm 5 Comments

Days remaining to publication date – 29.

The Happiness Project is an account of the year I spent testing the wisdom of the ages, the current scientific studies, and the lessons from popular culture about how to be happier. This is my fourth book (or my fifth book, if you include a book I did in collaboration with an artist).



The big news for me this week is that my book… Continue

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At 9:59am on January 28, 2010, Lynette BentonLynette Benton said…
Congratulations, Gretchen!

You were in my neck of the woods (Boston) recently, and I included your appearance in my Examiner.com article. www.examiner.com/x-15281-Boston-Writing-Careers-Examiner~y2010m1d8-Upcoming-Boston-area-author-events
At 1:26pm on January 25, 2010, Gabriella WestGabriella West said…
Hi Gretchen,

I featured your book as part of a blog post I just wrote about the quest for happiness. By the way, your badge is very cool--I had to throw that onto the page because it looked so playful! Best wishes,

Gabriella

http://www.examiner.com/x-13200-Bernal-Heights-Examiner~y2010m1d24-Hunt-for-happiness-week-endsshouldnt-it-be-longer
At 4:28pm on January 8, 2010, Mona GableMona Gable said…
Hi Gretchen,

Have been really enjoying your blog. I teach at Vroman's in Pasadena, so glad to see you'll be reading from The Happiness Project there!

Best,
Mona Gable
Huffington Post
At 7:53pm on September 1, 2009, Elena DixonElena Dixon said…
Hello Gretchen and thanks for your Happiness Project blog - you are an inspiration. Can't wait to read the book!
At 2:00pm on July 12, 2009, Sandi Kahn SheltonSandi Kahn Shelton said…
I love your Happiness blog on Slate, and how wonderful to find you here on She Writes! You are on a roll with giving great advice, and I know your book is going to be wonderful. Can't wait to read about the novel in a month! Best wishes to you!
At 2:55pm on July 5, 2009, Gretchen RubinGretchen Rubin said…
Thanks for the nice words about the Happiness Project -- that certainly makes me very HAPPY!
At 6:41am on July 4, 2009, Dory AdamsDory Adams said…
This is wonderful and inspiring advice -- and I've loved reading your Happiness Project blog. So cool to find you here at She Writes.
At 11:39am on July 3, 2009, Melinda BaileyMelinda Bailey said…
Okay. I'm going to go write that thing, *now*.
At 7:14am on July 3, 2009, Gwyn NicholsGwyn Nichols said…
Great post, and I love your whole Happiness Project. I'm looking forward to the book.
At 12:02pm on July 2, 2009, katieorensteinkatieorenstein said…
Hi Gretchen,

Fun to see you here! I need to know about the novel in a month thing.

Does it also work for nonfiction?

So glad I'll see you soon!

Katie
 
 
 

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