In Colorado...lightning is shocking.

Yes, of course, I know lightning is shocking everywhere, but there is something so different about the dry, static of Colorado.

From the seemingly clear blue sky, a bolt can materialize and disappear in nearly the same instant. Against the backdrop of an otherwise sunny day, you're never really…

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My husband hasn’t read my marriage book yet. (The one being released this next week!)  He’s surprisingly emotionless about the fact that so many other people will likely read this book before he does….

 

Intimate stories. Truths about our relationship. The ugly underbelly. It is a window…

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My recent blogpost about contracted infidelity has been a bit controversial. Why wouldn't it be? I pointed out a new trend for couples who agree to a marriage where affairs are part…

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If you are not my husband, your definition of marriage is of little consequence to me. I might bend my ear to hear what you think, but in the end, what has any effect on my marriage is how my definition lines up with my husband's.



I recently asked him, as far away from context as I could (I waited until we were talking about sausages---NO, not those sausages!)



"Hey, I have a question for you, and I want you to say the first thing… Continue