In my Salonniere column (an homage to my role in the salon of women writers that gave rise to She Writes), I will be talking about the growing intersection between creativity and community. How do social media tools impact writers? And what are the challenges and opportunities these intersections present?

But before I do that, I am going to do a series of posts focused on this community right here: our growing community of women writers. It's been about eight months since Debbie and I flipped the "on" switch for this network, and our approach up to now has mostly consisted of observing the activity here (sometimes with delighted incredulity, sometimes with concern) and responding to questions and issues as they've come up. By now, however, certain clear themes have emerged, and it is high-time that I invited all of you to participate in the conversation I'm starting today—Where To, She Writes?

To kick things off, I am going to list what Debbie and I see as the primary issues/topics at hand. Please comment, add, or otherwise weigh in, and next week (or maybe sooner, not sure I will adhere to the once-a-week thing, founder's privilege), I will refer to your feedback as I formulate my take on the matter.

ONE: The Great Self-Promotion Debate. What constitutes "good behavior" on She Writes, and where does promoting one's writing fit in here? What is the line between self-promotion and sharing good news? What do we mean by "self-promotion" exactly, and—very important, I think, as I care deeply about the success of the writers assembled here—does it work, and if not, what does? Finally, what should the "rules of the road" be for our community when it comes to comments, e-mail, "friending" and otherwise participating in the site?

TWO: The Man Question. How do you feel about the presence of men on She Writes? I am all for it, for the reasons I gave in our "About" section, but I know not everyone agrees. Why not? What do you think our policy should be about having male members on She Writes? And why the "She" in She Writes in the first place? (If I had a nickel for every journalist who's asked me that I would have...about fifty cents. I have not been interviewed by that many journalists.) And to the men who are here: what do you think? What drew you to She Writes?

THREE: "Emerging" and "Established" Writers—Do We All Belong In the Same Place? (And How Do We Know Who's Who?) A few weeks ago, I gave a talk to an extremely elite group of women novelists. So elite I was glad that I did not know all of their names until after they'd already asked me a raft of smart, sharp and challenging questions about how She Writes might fit into their writing lives. One concern was that if they joined a network like She Writes, they'd simply be expected to give—their knowledge, their contacts, their blurbs, etc.—without being clear about what they'd get. The "emerging" and "established" question raises another issue, too: can She Writes meaningfully serve writers who fall into both categories? Can our community, our services and our platform give both new writers and writers with ten critically acclaimed novels what they need?

FOUR: Communications. How Often Do You Want To Hear From Us? What Do You Want To Hear About? This is a tough one for us, especially as we grow, as it's unlikely that any two She Writers would have the exact same answer to this question, much less nearly eight thousand. Some of you really dislike seeing "She Writes" in your inbox, some of you like it a lot. Each and every time we message all of you, we agonize quite a bit, afraid of spending good will, but equally afraid that the amazing content and relevant goings-on here aren't being as well-explained or clearly communicated as they ought to be. In this post I'll also add some practical how-to guides for setting your She Writes e-mail settings, privacy controls, and opting out, or in, of our communications with you.

FIVE: Where To, She Writes? Sometimes I think of She Writes like a house—we built it, and you came. (Thank you!!) Lately, however, I have been thinking of She Writes less like a destination, and more as transportation—something that can take us into the future of publishing. This is the part where I get out my crystal ball, and would love to know what you see when you look in yours, too. Where is publishing headed, and how will She Writes, and its sister network She Reads (not yet launched, but always part of the plan), fit in?

I hope this provides food for thought, and that these questions resonate with you, too. Next week I will dive into the first one: The Great Self-Promotion Debate. Should be a doozy.

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Comment by Dawn Potter on March 18, 2010 at 1:19pm
Well, Jenne, it does occasionally happen, but what happens more often is that I beat myself up about the interaction. The point is, I guess, that exchanges can be wonderful or distressing . . . and not always predictably one or the other.
Comment by Dawn Potter on March 18, 2010 at 12:19pm
Kamy, I know that you and I have already had some conversation about question 3, and I still see no good, clear answer. As other commenters have pointed out, the interchange between established and emerging writers can be good for both sides. But the time demands are real, as is the urge to be generous with services, as is the urge to pay for groceries (which is not a given for many established writers: literature doesn't necessarily pay the bills). When one tries to balance those items, to explain the conflicts, feelings get hurt, and the balancer feels like a bitch. And occasionally gets treated like one. Clearly this is a difficult situation to parse.
Comment by Sandi Johnson on March 18, 2010 at 12:08pm
Ooops...I've got typos too. See what happens when you don't edit before submitting? lol
Comment by Sandi Johnson on March 18, 2010 at 12:06pm
Wow - running a site like SheWrites take a great deal of behind-the-scenes mental work, doesn't it?

It must feel like trying to read everyone's mind at once sometimes.

Here's my perspective...keep in mind, I'm new to SheWrites, but not to writing and participating in online communities.

One - I love being able to rally around those who have a reason to toot their own horn. It's part of what makes a community like this valuable - being able to encourage each other, celebrate each others' triumphs, and commiserate our failures. That's what makes a community. However, leave the buying decisions to me, thank you.

I don't have a problem with someone posting information about their services, etc. But I don't want it shoved down my throat. If you offer something I might be interested in, wonderful! Let me know where it is & I'll have a look-see. But don't beat me over the head with it. I think commercial-type announcements should have their place. If someone is looking for something, make the information available - a service directory page, a book catalog page, that sort of thing - easy to find, but not obnoxious. Leave it out of the every day conversations, though.

Two - Men are fine. I'm not so sure I get why a guy would want to be a part of a community focused on women, but that's not for me to decide. That's the guys choice & they should have the freedom to choose.

Three - Hmmm. I get the "lets not suck the life out of someone just because they've been published" thing. I do. But the idea of community gets lost when you start dividing and segmenting. In my experience, it tends to breed the "us vs. them" mentality. I would like to think that each of us has enough sense not to lean so heavily on a fellow writer just because they've been published. (Yeah, I know. I want to live in Utopia.)

Four - I don't really have a preference on the communications thing. I manage what my inbox via Outlook and have rules set up for various organizations. Everything I get from SheWrites automatically goes into its own folder. When I have time, I go sift through it. So I don't really have an opinion there.

Five - oh boy! What a big question. I think ebooks and self-publishing are going to continue to grow and become more "mainstream." Just look at what has happened in the last few years! Wow! Throw in new marketing avenues like social media networking & the whole Internet affect? Who knows where we might be in 5-10 years.

I think networks like SheWrites are going to become increasingly more popular with new writers trying to break into the publishing community. That's great as a support system for us writers, but what about the audience? What about the people we write for? What kind of changes are they going to be willing to make? That's what really counts. I think this is where networks like SheWrites can be a huge asset to writers. Help us understand the mindset of our audiences - the readers. Help us learn how to better reach them, involve them, connect with them.

So there you go...my 2 cents...worth what you paid for it. :)
Comment by Julie Polk on March 18, 2010 at 10:33am
PS: Eeep, typos! Please forgive any you see. I was writing fast.
Comment by Julie Polk on March 18, 2010 at 10:32am
Hi Kamy --

These are great questions. I've only got about ten minutes here at the moment, so I'm going to toss in my gut response to question Three. I'm solidly in the emerging category, and from that perch I hate the idea of joining such a fantastic site, built around community, and then finding there's a VIP room where the door is still shut to me. I know I've learned the most from those more experienced then I, and I've been lucky to know a lot of them; when my own work is fully ready to go out into the world, it will have a built-in support system, and I'm grateful for that.

Given that, I also know how difficult it can be for these established writers to manage the demands on their time, and completely understand their concern that suddenly everyone's just going to want a piece of them, for free to boot, simply because they joined a ning community. I've seen this happen to my established friends, and it's tough, not least because I think writers tend to be generous people who want to help, and who find it hard to say no.

So -- I wonder if there's a way to create a semi-porous division, something like a forum for established writers (you'd have to determine what your criteria are) in which if you meet certain criteria you can become a group-member with full privileges, but if you don't you can read posts, but not post yourself? Sort of like visitors in an operating theater watching surgery from above. Then if an emerging writer has a specific question for a specific writer, they could make contact directly on that person's own web site, assuming they have one. That way each individual established writer could control their own guidelines about to whom and how they respond. In this way, She Writes can provide some kind of access and maintain a sense of community while not directly imposing on established writers' time, brainpower, etc.

That's my five and half minute off the top of my head thought. I'll give all of these questions some more thought, they're really meaty. (Oh, and I support men who want to join -- though I think we all ought to reserve the right to throw tomataoes at them if they start the mansplaining crap or otherwise get overly goofy.)

The updates to the site look fantastic, by the way. It's exciting around here!

Julie
Comment by Karen Propp on March 18, 2010 at 9:59am
Kamy,

Thanks for this interesting post and for sharing developmental issues from your catbird seat. As someone who joined on early to SheWrites it's been rewarding to watch the site grow and grow and grow -- in breadth as well as in numbers. There's a real richness of content here now.

I want to weigh in on an issue that's pertains to Issues One and Three above; namely, making money directly from the site. Personally, I think it's dandy for everyone to toot their own horn about recent accomplishments and/or seek help for the various and difficult aspects of a writing life. I like to hear the toots (as opposed to tweets) about things people that I might not otherwise know about. And I certainly can relate to many of the struggles others voice. But when commerce gets involved things take on a different tone. Things get, more, well, commercial and food--chainy. Understandably, everyone is trying to figure out how to write and make a living, and I have no problem with people linking to their various platforms and websites where services may be offered, but it does change the cooperative we're-all-in-it-together feeling on the site when one's credit card is involved. At least that's my feeling. Perhaps others feel otherwise.

Karen

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