The Silver Sparrow Tour will hit more than thirty cities this summer. Of course I am thrilled to meet so many readers, but thirty is a lot of cities and eight weeks is a long time to be on the road. To prepare, I am basically in training. For the next two months, I will be acting as an ambassador for my novel and I must do a good job, or else what’s the point. Here's what I'm doing to get ready.
Cutting negative people out of my life: Book tour is a vulnerable time, an emotional rollercoaster. Now is the time to be surrounded only by real friends. On the subject of a competitive, jealous, ex-boyfriend,I offer a warning from my publicity guru, Lauren: “ A guy like that will eat your career.” Then she mimed Cookie Monster and I imagined him devouring everything I had worked for. Anybody that’s not making my garden grow has to be put on hold, at least until September. I am usually a pretty patient person, but for book tour, I have to protect myself.
Packing trial suitcases: I will have to do it with just a carry-on. Why? Because I’ll be on a plane every day and what will happen if my checked bag gets lost? I consulted a couple travel website, asked other writers, and put out a call for advice on facebook. I came up with a plan and I have tried three times to get my suitcase situation together. (I’m not there yet, but I am getting closer. Apparently you should roll clothes, rather than fold.)
Sleeping: I am not a good sleeper under the best of circumstances, but you can imagine that my rest is troubled as my pub-date gets closer. More from Lauren: “You need to go to bed.” Then she added, “And you must rest while you’re on the tour.” The idea being that a run-down, haggard, irritable author does NOT help the book. Last week I went to the LA Festival of Books. When I got to my hotel, I forced myself to take a nap rather than run to the author reception and shake hands and chat. It was hard, but I did it.
Practice interviews: Last week, I blogged about what to say when people ask you “what’s your book about.” In interviews, the hard question is “What motivated you to write this book.” Writers know that this is an intensely personal matter. To really answer it, I would have to reveal my most vulnerable tender layer. But I have to say something and when the interviewer is on NPR, I have to say it to millions of people. Lauren and I have been doing test runs to figure out how to tell the truth while respecting my boundaries.
Putting the social media on auto-pilot: Everyone knows that facebook and twitter are the best way to remind people about your upcoming events. But when I’m on the run, I am not going to be able to keep all my social networks current. In preparation, I have used Hootsuite to schedule tweets and facebook status updates for every day of the tour with the dates and times of my events.
Learning to enjoy the ride: So many good things have been happening to Silver Sparrow and I don’t want to be so busy preparing for the publication that I can’t enjoy this amazing experience. I know this shouldn’t be something that a person should have to practice, but when you’re been pedalling uphill for so long, you have to learn to coast and feel the breeze. To that end, I have been keeping a journal and every night I write down what I have to be grateful for. I write down the big things like being featured in a magazine, but I also make note of every encouraging email from a reader. And every night, I end the list with the same sentence: I am so lucky to be able to live my dream.
Now, to you SheWriters—