I had hoped that this subject would gain more comments or even interest. The fact that girls are being educated or socialized to be what they should be and not encouraged to be as they are.... to look 'female' and to act 'female'. for a long time the girls will not realize who they really are until they start not 'fitting'. lately I heard a comment how little female the German chancellor Merkel would be.... well, it is the year 2009 and still those comments come out of an ignorant mouth. Please don't take me wrong, I am not really very happy with Merkel's politics, but who would discuss the male being of a politician? It remains an issue..... When visiting NYC I happened to stumble in a store called "American Girls" and I had the opportunity to watch little girls buying dolls and their clothes and entering a store with clothes for the girls that would be the same model as the doll's. The mothers and their daughters seemed drugged and hectic.... And the message is: She is like you.....store

Anyway this is the message: you are not enough as you are. Legal aliens are like that. You are legally wherever but you remain alien and you will never 'fit' in... Is this the reason why shopping new outfits is so important?