Pink and Blue Diaries: When Is Social Media a Writing Nutrient, and When Is It Doritos? Take the Social Media Cleanse Challenge with Me and Find Out!

Deborah Siegel gives up the green juice and kicks off a social media cleanse.  

 

It’s a myth that a writer’s cave is dark, quiet, and Internet free.  When writers are doing research, for instance, we often find ourselves productively toggling between Internet and Word doc.  But most times, let's face it: when we sit down to do our WRITING and instead find ourselves BROWSING, the Intertube is just one big suck.  

 

This week, as I’ve been clearing decks, I’ve been reading about the consequences of technology overload, which has prompted me to inaugurate the Social Media Cleanse Challenge—a 7-day experiment in being more mindful about my social media usage.  The goal?  Create more white space here in the cave.

 

Everyone and their sister seem to have a Challenge going on right about now.  I’m inspired by Sharon Salzberg's 28-Day Meditation Challenge, and by Kris Karr’s 21-Day Crazy Sexy Adventure Cleanse (which I actually tried; I made it to Day 3, drinking only green juice, as pictured above, til noon; then I caved).  I’m inspired by thinkers like Gwen Bell (www.gwenbell.com), who looks for the humanity in technology, and by Jeff Vandermeer, author of Booklife: Strategies and Survival Tips for the 21st-Century Writer, who encourages creative types to adopt a balanced technology diet.

 

But I really, really hate diets.  I hate most of all how it's usually women who are going on diets.  Yet it’s an apt word through which to assess our social media consumption.  Sometimes social media is Fluffernut, other times it’s protein or Vitamin C.  It’s up to us to know the difference.  How rarely do we stop to think about it, or contemplate what’s at stake.

 

What’s at stake, writers?  Why, your WRITING.  Your CREATIVITY.  And that most precious of all commodity, your TIME.

 

“Balance,” writes Vandermeer, is about “working smarter and more imaginatively for greater creative satisfaction and gain….By simply responding to information that comes to you from conduits, you feel you’re closer to achieving goals.  But there’s the nagging sense behind it all that instead all you’re doing is treading water.  The goal’s still on the horizon, and you’re expending a lot of useless energy.”

 

Stop treading water and take this Challenge with me.  A quick caveat:  I’m hardly one for abstinence, so any “challenge” I design is going to be gentle and filled with compassion (and probably chocolate).  Sound like your cup of tea? 

 

Then let’s go.  It’s pretty simple. 

 

Just 7 rules.  The Challenge will begin on Monday (any Monday, but it you’re reading this now, then Monday February 7, 2011).

 

Over the next 7 days (beginning Monday):

  1. I pledge to be mindful about my social media consumption. 

     

  2. I will set aside some time (even just a few minutes, on the subway or while walking to get coffee) to think about which social media outlets feed me and which feel more like a drain.  I will spend less time at social water coolers and more time at nutritious troughs that nourish my writerly soul (like She Writes, doh!).

     

  3. I will work on letting go of that feeling that I’m missing something, or missing an opportunity to be responsive, if I’m not checking email at my usual pace.  The impulse to check email is rote and reactive.  I can do it less.  People can wait.

     

  4. Since this isn’t an abstinence thing and since I’m still ambitious, I will concentrate on growing my social media presence this next week on one channel alone. (For this next week, for me, that will be Twitter, because I’m finding it the most useful place to dip into the news stream on topics I track– follow me if you like: https://twitter.com/deborahgirlwpen)

     

  5. I will cleanse my participation at other channels. (For me that means categorizing my Facebook “friends” by creating a few lists, and adjusting the status update flow so that I’m only seeing updates from the friends and Influencers I really care about following)

     

  6. I will get outside as much as I can.  The cold, crisp air helps me reset my mind; the stimuli out there are a welcome change from a computer screen.  Along those lines, I will be physically active as much as I can. (For me, that means yoga)

     

  7. I will forgive myself if I fail at any of the items above.  And I will eat as much chocolate as I like.  (See? I promised you there’d be chocolate.)

If you’d like to commit to this Challenge with me, “sign” the pledge by simply commenting on this post (just saying “count me in” in a comment counts).  There’s something to committing in public.  We can hold each other accountable.  I’m not going to create a group on the site where we can talk about how we’re doing, because, well, that might be antithetical, for some folks, to the Challenge.  But please do feel free to check in here at this post to record your progress, see how others are doing, and shout out some support!

 

As ever, if you know others you think could benefit, please spread word.  Here’s a tweet:

 

Take the 7-day Social Media Cleanse Challenge w/ @deborahgirlwpen @shewritesdotcom. Intentionality can set you free. bit.ly/eMqJ0J

 

Feel free to replace my Twitter handle above with your own.

 

Don’t forget: we start on Monday.  Have a good weekend, ya’ll!  (Go Bears?  Er, oops.)

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Tags: #process/craft, #social media, time management

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Comment by Sandeep Kaur Samra on February 17, 2011 at 9:06pm
I'm In! I so need this challenge
Comment by The Pink and Blue Diaries on February 14, 2011 at 7:33am

It's Monday -- DAY 7!  How'd it go She Writers?

 

I posted an update, mid-cleanse, here:

http://deborahsiegel.tumblr.com/post/3226118698/pink-and-blue-diari...

 

Eager to hear how it went for you.  Let us know in comments--there or here!

 

All my best,

Deborah

Comment by Ellen Ferranti on February 11, 2011 at 12:24pm
I am trying to keep up with this challenge. However, I find myself with the need to view as many social media outlets as I can because of the events in Egypt. I have many friends, colleagues and patients who are Egyptian. We live by the United Nations where we hear the protests. (I guess an old fashioned form of social media). My teenage daughter is studying the French Revolution in AP European History in HS and social media is bringing the revolutionary events of Egypt into the 21st century and our home in real time.
So, I guess, as with all things, I will keep trying to balance social media viewing/usage in my life.
I wish Life could be simpler....
On with the challenge...
Comment by Peggy Strawhorn Kass on February 10, 2011 at 4:59pm
I'm in. I really need this! Thanks.
Comment by N. Angail on February 10, 2011 at 10:01am
I need to be on this challenge!
Comment by Christine Watson on February 10, 2011 at 9:34am
Oh my. I couldn't agree more.
Comment by Robin Kemp on February 9, 2011 at 8:12pm
Am so very in. Already tiring of Twitter and dropping back in here. Swore off FB on January 1. What made the early text-only Internet great was its compartmentalization: you found your niche and stayed there, or else created one. Now, it's everyone, everywhere, all the time, about everything, very horizontal. Draining. I like my Kindle (which puts a serious brake on websurfing) and my e-mail. And I write drafts on my blog, which is not like editing a finished article and posting it on a blog. I get more these days out of reading books, which sustain and draw out ideas; a screen offers only so much reflection, and that's mostly from the surface itself.
Comment by Dede Cummings on February 9, 2011 at 8:02pm
I was loosing interest in fb anyway--got out and went for a snow shoe today instead! This is a good idea, Deborah! i am new here, so just finding my way around! thanks.
Comment by The Pink and Blue Diaries on February 9, 2011 at 7:50pm

Report coming tomorrow -- just got home -- my babies are crying their heads off right now!  

Comment by Christina Brandon on February 9, 2011 at 5:25pm

Superb!

 

I think #4 and 6 are always great to keep in mind. Best of luck, ladies!

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