Your Life Is Your Novel
Written by
Chrys Fey
March 2013
Written by
Chrys Fey
March 2013

For one of my (currently half-finished) novels, a young girl reminiscences about her childhood and every single one of her memories of growing up are my own childhood memories. It was a lot of fun giving my character the memories that I hold dear. I also let my experiences aid me in my writing. Nothing is more truthful or helpful than a first-hand experience.


When I was nine, I came home from school to find fire surrounding my home. It was the most terrifying moment of my life, and to this day I still fear fire. If I smell the unmistakable stench of burning brush in the air, or see dark plumes of smoke close by, my heart starts to hammer inside my chest. I looked fire in its flaming eyes that day, and it looked back at me. Thanks to this horror-filled day in my past, I am able to intimately write scenes with fire.


You may be able to watch movies about firefighters like Ladder 49 and look at real-life pictures of fire to write a convincing scene in your novel. Obviously, I do not recommend starting a fire or searching for one to get up close and personal with.


Another experience that has greatly contributed to my writing is the spine surgery I had when I was fifteen because of scoliosis. The surgery and recovery was a very difficult time in my life, but all the pain I felt, my scar, and the steel in my back, has (strangely) influenced my creativity. After feeling the pain accompanied with this surgery, I am now able to describe pain very well in my writing, and I happen to mention spines quite a lot. Once I even said that my main character had a steel spine.


In conclusion: Any experience that you have had in your life can be used in your writing. If you have given birth to a child and one of your characters is in labor, think back on what it felt like, pretend you’re going through it again, and write through those imaginary contractions. Have you ever been punched in the face? Think back on what it felt like and use your way with words to make the readers grimace when one of your characters gets sacked.


TIP: Make a list of memories (good and bad) as well as experiences that you have had throughout your life. One day, you may be able to use them in your writing.


QUESTION: Has an experience (or experiences) from your life inspired your writing?


Originally posted on Write With Fey

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