It’s a never ending story…People fall in and out of love. It’s a merry go round unless you can’t get onto the carousel and have to watch as a by-stander from the outside. Why is it so difficult to meet somebody today? The right person? What should you do? Where should you go? In spite of our ever increasing socializing opportunities and networking possibilities, it doesn’t seem to get easier.

Many websites catering to singles and their needs offer dating advice. I like Adventures in Delicious Dating for over 40s.

Sites that care about your personal well-being and happiness like Positively Positive, or Dr. Tranquility and her dating protocols are a quintessential step in getting help—if singles want it. Some of them advertize on my Facebook page Singles & Dating Advice. Check it out as well as my blog www.NextTimelucky.blogspot.com.

There's also a gazillion books on the topic, self-help books and novels. Take a peek at the category of Best Relationship Non-Fiction on Good reads. 74 books are listed and my book Next Time Lucky: Lessons of a Matchmaker  is #1.

If you're dating again after a long term relationship or divorce, it's even more complicated. Read the story of a 40 something divorcee, on the rebound, in Dublin, Ireland. She even started her own dating agency and yet- nothing prepared her for what lay ahead. Take a pro's view on the matter of finding a soul mate, a loving relationship. A quest that becomes more important to her the more men she meets on this cyber highway of cupid's dreams: The internet. Learn from her experiences, be smart and get advice. Be open: Lightning may strike! Her new version of the book Next Time Lucky is packed with practical dating tips, especially for online dating. A great go-to book even for experienced daters. And now the icing on the cake (or the inside scoop) if you are in the market or the dating trenches…There ‘s a great show coming up: “Date Therapy For Valentine's Day On The Way with Siggy Buckley” where I’ll be interviewed about my new book. When : Feb7, from 6:30 to 7.00 PM on Blog talk Radio.

Callers welcome! See you on the radio!