Over the years I have gained a few friends of different races, ages and cultures. I must say I have learned quite a bit from them. I did not set out to get a Caucasian friend or a Hispanic friend or even an older friend. However, my goal was to have quality people in my life. I wanted to expand my circle and I have been pleasantly surprised as my friendships have grown.
As always, my goal is to learn and when I learn I can share it with others. I have come to appreciate each culture for their individuality and our similarities. I can say that we, meaning my friends and I, are more alike than we are different. I have learned to listen and use parts of each culture to enhance my life and the life of my children so we can contribute to society.
This is what I learned:
Having a diversified portfolio of friends makes me a better person. I become an example to my children. My children can’t believe in diversity and not see it in action. My friends and I talk openly about race, politics, religion, age and class. We don’t always agree but we listen and that is the biggest lesson to my children- to learn from others, listen and understand someone else's point of view.
My family and I richer and better for all the lessons and experiences I have gained with this group of friends. I am leaving a legacy of love and understanding that my children will inherit.