Get Diversified: No Money Needed


Over the years I have gained a few friends of different races, ages and cultures. I must say I have learned quite a bit from them. I did not set out to get a Caucasian friend or a Hispanic friend or even an older friend. However,  my goal was  to have quality people in my life. I wanted  to expand my circle and  I have been pleasantly surprised as my friendships  have grown.

As always, my goal is to learn and when I learn I can share it with others. I have come to appreciate each culture for their individuality and our similarities. I can say that we, meaning my friends and I, are more alike than we are different. I have learned to listen and use parts of each culture to enhance my life and the life of my children so we can contribute to society.

This is what I learned:

  • To put family first. My friend reminded me as I was going through difficult time to focus on my family because that is my strength. I learned to spend time with them and turn off all distractions (TV, Internet, Telephone, and Cell Phone) at least once a week.
  • To remember to speak softly and calmly to my children. This is a trait that I will teach my children through my actions and they will reciprocate the same behavior.
  • To engage my children’s thoughts about school and politics. This allows me to understand who they are as individuals.
  • To smile.  Smile  as often as possible when dealing with my children. This reminds them that I am  delighted to see them  and have them around.
  • To be mindful of what I feed my children. Knowing what ingredients are in the foods we eat can ultimately change their life and mine. I have learned to read labels and find alternatives to things I don’t feel are healthy for us.

Having a diversified portfolio of friends makes me a better  person. I become an example to my children. My children can’t believe in diversity and not see it in action. My friends and I talk openly about race, politics, religion, age and class. We don’t always agree but we listen and that is the biggest lesson to my children- to learn from others, listen and understand someone else's point of view.

My family and I  richer and better for all the lessons and experiences I have gained with this group of friends. I am leaving a legacy of love and understanding that my children will inherit.

Let's be friends

The Women Behind She Writes

519 articles
12 articles

Featured Members (7)

123 articles
392 articles
54 articles
60 articles

Featured Groups (7)

Trending Articles

No comments yet