As a writing coach, I've seen the heartbreak of writing up close.
I know. We don't talk about that part of the process very often, but here's what it can look like:
In each of these situations, writers feel like they've somehow failed. Or their writing has somehow failed them. I've felt this way, and I've talked to sooo many writers who feel this way.
Here's how I keep disappointment in perspective: I remember that just like life, writing has ups and downs. They're part of the process, not a reflection of me or my talent.
I also find it helpful to remember that, just like there's a life cycle for every piece of writing, there's a Life Cycle of a Writer:
Now, yes, this is a generalization. And no, it's not always a linear process. But whenever I share this cycle with writers, I can see and hear them relax. There's nothing wrong with them. It's simply the process. Yes, it requires work and perseverance, but those are two things they know how to do.
If you've been feeling frustrated with your writing, consider where you are in your life cycle.
You can even freewrite about it, journaling about your reactions to what I've shared and where you think you might be in the cycle.
Let us know what you discover in the comments or over on the Facebook page. We always love to hear from you, and other writers do too!
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