TWO - Freedom / Control

Freedom is such a nice word and beautiful feeling but at the same time it is so scary. I feel like everyone, in different levels, are searching for ways to become free. I am constantly looking for things that will give me the freedom of attachment to money, career, people… but what is really freedom?


Well, I keep asking myself this question over and over again and for so long was so hard to find a deep definition, because we all want freedom, but most of us does not know how to find it. Thinking and overthinking about it, I got to the conclusion that freedom is when you let go of control. 


It is when you literally stop fighting with your inner self. It's when you stop trying to manage and to be in control of all situations that happens to you. Once you are finally able to stop controlling things, you can become free. Free to go with the flow, this is freedom.



Other interesting point is that once you free yourself, you open space for all kinds of possibilities and positivity. There are so many things in life that we don’t understand, but maybe we don’t need to know everything, we just need to feel and let it be. Why do we waste most of our time feeling worried, sad, angry or other negative emotions?? Because we are slaves of our own wrong beliefs and that is why it is so hard to become free, because freedom is the extreme opposite of where we are. 


And where are we? In a prison called society, being hypnotised by those in power who tells us what is right and what is wrong, what we should do, how we should think and behave. 


Once again, that’s why becoming free is so hard. But the good news is that it is not impossible. Nothing is impossible because we have the power to create our own reality and that’s why “they” keep us blind and distracted with all the negative issues around the world.


 So, now we see: Control - Freedom; the act of control, is controlling our freedom as much as our freedom is in control of our own control. 


It's not complicated as it looks, thinking of that I got to the conclusion that I must find the best of me, a better version of myself everyday. A version of me who is free of control and free of the Society rules. I must find my own self to grow with the flow of my own reality and beliefs, that’s how I created BVOM - Better Version Of Myself, to remind me everyday that the only thing I am in control, is the choices I make, and I am always going to choose to be better than yesterday.


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