"Partners involved in novel and interesting experiences together were ... less likely to report boredom. “People have a fundamental motivation to improve the self and add to who they are as a person,” Dr. Lewandowski says. “If your partner is helping you become a better person, you become happier and more satisfied in the relationship.”
The good news, my dear Internets, is that we have more than a little say in the "artists" we surround ourselves with, and those who "add to who we are as a person."
As it's still early in the year, I challenge you (and me) in 2011 to be creative Michelangos — both in how we shape those around us, and in who we engage to sculpt the masterpieces that are us.
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Pamela Tsigdinos is the author of the award-winning book, Silent Sorority: A (Barren) Woman Gets Busy, Angry, Lost and Found, a memoir on living with infertility. Learn more at http://www.silentsorority.com
Pamela
Thanks, Cathy, for dropping by to comment. Appreciate your thoughts. p.s. Florence is definitely on the list of places I hope to visit again soon (20 years is too long between visits!)