Hope is the reason we have children.
Hope is the only element of sanity, really, if you examine the facts of family from a cost/benefit perspective. We hope to create something better than our experience. Perhaps because a parent's wants and needs by definition must fall second to keeping a child alive and thriving, often unsaid is the idea that in the attempt to create something better, we experience the joy of the attempt.
These thought arrived this AM, during a Feldenkrais session. I was working with my upper back and felt a long-in-coming truth about a necessary connection between the belly muscles, upper back, and shoulder.
I didn't think, "Back, shoulder, belly." I thought, "Most truth comes quietly."