Identifying--or not?--as a Mother Writer in "Public"
Hi everyone,
What a vibrant group! And one I’ve been wanting to drop in on and introduce myself to for reals for some time now. I’m VP-at-large here at She Writes and am re-emerging bit by bit after giving birth to a twin boy and girl 8 weeks ago! I’m honored and humbled to join the typing-with-one-hand (while nursing) brigade and thrilled--not to mention deeply inspired--to see so many of you here at She Writes.
Intro-wise, I’ve published two books –
Only Child: Writers on the Singular Joys and Solitary Sorrows of Growing Up Solo (Random House) and
Sisterhood, Interrupted: From Radical Women to Grrls Gone Wild (Palgrave Macmillan) – and my freelance journalism and essays and blog (
http://girlwpen.com) tend to focus on feminism, family, popular culture, politics, and the like. I’m currently working on an essay about the gendering of childhood during the first year of life for an anthology – and rejiggering as I work on my next book. The appellation “Mother Writer” is new for me (
blogged about it here) and I’d be eager to learn more about how those of you who write/publish about or from motherhood define yourself—or don’t, entirely—as a mother writer. The whole issue of defining women through motherhood is such an interesting, and often troublesome, debate in our culture at large. A few questions to get a discussion going here, all in the spirit of sparking honest and respectful debate:
-Does defining oneself as a Mother Writer limit or expand one’s sense of oneself as a writer? as a professional? What are the advantages? Wherein lie the drawbacks?
-The term “mommy blogger” has acquired pejorative connotations outside the momosphere; how do YOU feel about the term these days?
I'd really love your thoughts. And thank you, already, for the inspiration as I myself figure out this next stage of a writing and parenting and professional life….!
My best,
Deborah