I'm a 57 year old woman who has been writing most of my life and am now interested in writing a memoir. I've started and stopped it several times and am still undecided about what kind of structure I want to use for it. My 35 year old daughter died a year and two days ago. I've been unable to write for the last five or six months, even journal entries, but I know I have to or I'll go totally insane. I want to join an online group where I might find friends, inspiration and advice.