Only God can give restoration, not the world. We can restore our relationships, (honestly, only the Holy Spirit can do that), and we restore our iPhones to their original factory settings. Okay, I am talking about my iPhone, not!

Anyway, the post below should help you out when you try to tell Jesus that you don't need his love:

http://praywithme101.blogspot.com/2017/05/the-woman-is-where-at-well-of-jesus.html?m=0, basically, we should not tell him what we think is best: we should let him fill us with his love whether we think best or not!

I pray you feel encouraged: www.proverbs31.org. 

Hope that helps!

Blessings!