Ladies, I am facing the challenge of a lifetime. Despite several professional recommendations, my parents are opposed to me being a limited conservator for my special-needs daughter. What is between mothers and daughters? I am eager to forgive and have made many attempts to reconcile but here we are anyway. My incest history has come to the fore, one of the other books I want to write about. I thought I understood how deep shame runs in my family but now I realize what I'm dealing with is a generational curse likely brought on by Santa Ria practices within my family. I guess what I'm asking is WTF? Are there any women who have had daughters who were molested by their husband/boyfriend/fiance, etc? How does that make you feel? Are there any circumstances where you would not believe your daughter? Before I can write about it, I need to comprehend it. Is it cultural or social? I love my parents but the price is too high. I can't be alone. Please advise, comment.